Relationship Advice for Will and Kate

Put Marriage First

"The love you share will continue to be witnessed by a world craving relationship role models. Decide right now to make your relationship your first priority. By doing so, you are clearly saying that the needs of the marriage come before individual needs. Making decisions, including compromises, becomes much easier when you have already chosen to put the marriage first." —Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret

Know Your Needs

"In a good marriage partners understand how to satisfy each other's needs, both in and out of the bedroom. The best way to figure this out is to ask yourselves: 'If I am going to spend the rest of my life with this person what is it that I need from them in order to have the type of marriage and relationship I desire?' Once you understand what you need and share your answers." —Joe Amoia, matchmaker and dating coach

Connect Each Day

"Like all high profile political couples, you will constantly be pulled in many different directions daily. For a successful marriage, commit to creating a space in your busy schedules to focus solely on each other and how you are doing as a couple each day or night. Carving out this time will help you stay close and grow as a couple even under the pressures of being in the spotlight." —Eve Agee, life coach

Don't Let Others Define You

"The only purpose of tabloids is to sell tabloids, so remember: positive or negative, always approach headlines with humor! When you're completely alone and away from the public eye, try your best to let go and be as silly and carefree as you two can muster ... especially in the bedroom." —Dr. Shoshana Bennett, Ph.D. psychologist

Accept Uncertainty

"It's common for newly married couples to question and even regret their decision once the honeymoon is over. Realize that this is normal, and use it as an opportunity to talk about how things are different as a married couple." —Johanna Lyman, sex and relationships coach

Have a Common Goal

"A few days after the wedding — on the honeymoon is a perfect time — sit down and together write out what you want your life to look like. Each anniversary go back and review what you wrote, celebrate what you've accomplished, and update your goals so you grow together." —Orna and Matthew Walters, "The Power Couple"

Clearly Define Fidelity

"Have a direct and candid conversation before the wedding about each others expectations. Clear up any confusion about what it means to be faithful and/or monogamous. Marriage is not a one time inoculation against cheating, not even for a prince and princess." —Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D. psychotherapist

Avoid Temptation

"Be aware that in the course of your marriage, you will be physically attracted to others. When this happens, acknowledge it and then move on. Think of your partner and channel all your sexual energy into the thought of them." —Delaine Moore, divorce coach and founder of IamDivorcedNotDead.com

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Separate Public and Private

"Be very careful to disentangle your royal titles from who you really are together. As figure heads you'll need to maintain a certain image, but don't let that influence who you are as a couple and those intimate moments to which the rest of the world is not privy." —Rebecca Roy, marriage educator and therapist

Have Lots of Sex

"Sex keeps you connected, helps you to laugh at the absurdity of life and reminds you everyday why you’ve chosen to walk through life together. Set a shared goal for how often you want to "plug in" together and make it one that you can both help to achieve." —Melanie Gorman, therapist and life coach