Secrets & Lies

Secrets & Lies About The Past

She says: Never tell your spouse what you fantasize about during sex, unless you plan to do those things with him. And never tell your spouse the details about sex with any other person you've ever been with, no matter how many times he says he can "handle it."

He says: I agree about not sharing details about past bedmates; it's just not a turn-on to think of other people doing stuff to your spouse, unless of course you're into that kind of thing, which we're not. But I'm a competitive guy—I want to know how I stack up. Annabelle has told me a little here and there about her exes. Of course, she could have just been lying to me to make me feel good about myself…