When To Keep Mum

"Do you really think those pants are flattering?"

Are you trying to hint that he's putting on weight? Because saying the above, says Ford, is not getting anything concrete across. You may think that you're subtly conveying the message, but instead you're insulting his looks without showing any genuine concern for his health.

Instead, start with something you like about how he looks: "When you wear that blue shirt, it really makes me appreciate your gorgeous blue eyes." Then broach the topic of his weight gain by framing the comment so it's about his health, not his looks: "Honey, what do you think about us both starting after-dinner walks?" When you've softened up your approach, you have more room to make other, helpful suggestions.