Whine Away

Your husband is chronically late.

Tensions can flare when it comes to hurt feelings, so keep it short and simple. Focus your complaint on one recent incident, getting to the root of the issue without letting it turn into a broader criticism. Say something, like "Maybe we should try a few different time-management techniques, so you don't end up running late, because it ends up stressing us both out." Winch strongly recommends having another talk with him if he dismisses the complaint as much ado about nothing: "I don't say things are important to me all the time, so when I do, I expect you to take them seriously. I promise to do the same when you bring something you feel is important to my attention."