Why You're Not Married...Yet
The author describes her book as "a hug, a bitch-slap and a guidebook all rolled into one." Find out why
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ELLE sat down with Tracy McMillan, veteran TV writer (Mad Men, United States of Tara) and author of this month's hilariously irreverent Why You're Not Married…Yet (Ballantine Books), a shrewd guide to relationships that stemmed from her viral Huffington Post article (one of Time's Top 10 Opinions of 2011). This thrice-divorced mother goes for the tell-it-like-it-is approach to advice (chapter titles include "You're Crazy" and "You're a Mess"). "It's like Oprah—with swear words," McMillan says. Read on for more of McMillan's take on life and love.
ELLE: Let's go back to the beginning. What prompted you to write the original article that would become the basis for your book?
Tracy McMillan: The idea stemmed from positive feedback I had gotten over the years, after talking to many friends about their relationships. When giving them advice, I had just been coming from my own experiences. Taking a hard look at my own life helped me learn how to get on the right track. But when I realized that sharing the insights I had collected was actually helping people, I saw an opportunity. Putting my words piece online was an important part of my plan to help women learn how to love themselves and have a better life.